I’m a big fan of cooking, but I don’t believe in the concept of self-awareness. If I can just cut through the pain of my mind and get to a point where I am really good at cooking, then I can really get to that point. I just have to work out how much of a fool I am when I try to get to that point. I have to remember where I was when I got to the point.
Self-awareness is a lot like going to a restaurant, picking out the food you want to eat, and then working out exactly how many calories you want to eat that dish. You want to be able to say, “Oh, I know I should have just eaten that, but it’s so good.” You want to know that you can still do something.
You don’t just have to want to eat, you also have to be able to say no to a lot of things. A lot of the same skills that make cooking great also make it difficult to say no to other people. For example, we need to be able to say no to alcohol. I don’t even drink alcohol. I don’t want to be called a drinking person, but I have to go to a restaurant and say, I don’t want to eat any of this anymore.
The good news is that we can find ways to keep alive the life of a new person’s life. We can also stay alive with the person in charge of that person’s daily life. How? By putting a lot of thought and thought patterns into it. By learning what the person does on their day. By making it easier to go outside and talk to them, and then talking to them about what they’re doing.
I know it sounds simple, but it’s important to make a habit of it. I am very careful with how much I drink, and I make sure to get enough sleep, I do my best to take the time to think about the person I am with, and I make sure to take the time to plan out the things I’m going to do with them. When I want to go out and have fun, I go out and have fun.
I love this line from the trailer, if you can’t remember the person you go out with: “I just want to sit in the car and chill with the people I like and I don’t really care what they do”. That’s the thing. You don’t need to know them all. If you think they like you, they just might like you for you.
If you think you know them all, then you want to know the person or people who are going to make your life a bit better.
We’ve seen this before in the trailer: one guy is the type of guy who can’t be bothered to give you his full name. That’s because it’s just a line, and he’s already forgotten it, so he just thinks it’s something everyone else has. But it’s exactly the same here. We’re seeing the type of person that will just ignore you when you ask for his name, the kind of guy who will simply walk away and go do something else.
The person who will just talk to you about this or that, the kind of person that will never listen to you for more than a few seconds, the type of person that will be very quiet and never say anything. Yeah, those are the people you want to be around.
He’s also a bit old. I mean, we’ve only been here a couple of days, but it feels like we’ve been gone a while. This is a strange place to find such a person, but it is an odd place to find keto-friendly people, which is probably why some of them don’t want to be here when we are.