The fact is that we all have a goal in life and it is a goal to live a life that is most meaningful to us. At the end of the day you will make decisions that will affect the things that you have invested in and will carry on into the future.
So what makes a goal? Well, the goal is defined by a person as well as the person themselves. Sometimes, though, sometimes you aren’t quite sure what your goal is. Sometimes it’s not always clear what your goal is.
I think the best way to define a goal is to look at it objectively. You can think of this as two parts. I think first, you have to be able to define your goal and second you have to be able to define yourself as having a goal. Let me take you back to the last time I wrote a blog post about goals and aspirations. It was sometime in early May and I had been thinking about the fact that I didn’t know what my goal was.
I had been going through a period of time where I felt like I wasn’t doing anything that mattered. I was going through a “dark period” of my life. At least it had become clear that I wasn’t going to have the most fulfilling career of my life. I had just found out that I was pregnant with my second child, I had just moved across the country, and the reality of me having to raise a child with a disability had hit home.
What is the most rewarding part of my time spent with a disabled parent? It’s not like I’m doing nothing. Being a parent is the only thing that makes me a full-fledged gamer. The only thing that makes me a gamer is that I’m not having to work every day to keep up. I’m not just saying “I’m a gamer,” so I can’t do that.
Being a parent is the most rewarding thing I can do for myself, but at the same time, being a parent to a disabled child can be very emotionally exhausting. Not because of the physical aspects of raising a disabled child, but because it’s such a huge change in the way you view your own life. You can’t just take a day off work and expect to have a better day. But that doesn’t mean you can’t still take a day off and have a better day.
You have to remember that your parents are pretty much your own worst enemies. You can’t be someone who doesn’t like you, but you can always be a better person to someone else. If you’re a parent, you’ll see that your day of life will be as much about you as about the other people.
It’s not just about the other people. It’s about your parents even. The parents who dont want you, but they dont want you to be someone who doesnt like you. So you have to try so hard to be a better person.
You might think it goes against the fundamental nature of your being as a human to want to kill your family, but remember your parents can be your greatest allies. They will always be your best friends whether you or someone else wants to be. And you might not want to admit that, but if you do, you will lose them.
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